People often have their own collection of secret dreams, and an active and exciting fantasy sex life is part of the makeup of many people. They see themselves as adventurous souls who boldly seek out a partner for a one night stand, or they fantasize about meeting the perfect person who will indulge all their sexual requests. These fantasies are generally harmless, and are experienced by both men and women. While men tend to joke about sexual fantasies, women tend to not discuss them much at all.
Few people actually admit what their secret fantasies are, and they are often afraid other people will guess what they are thinking. Sharing them with a partner may help spice up a relationship, or it may ruin it completely. Even when a couple has been together for years, it takes a great deal of trust to expose this intimate part of a person's life to another.